We all have a choice in choosing our reactions to the tests and trials that are placed on our journey. In fact, the Bible even tells us to consider our trials pure joy because when the trial finishes will be mature and complete. If we take the trials and look at them with joy, we can know that our Father has a specific and special lesson for us personally.
Stones aren't placed before you to harm you but to grow your faith and relationship with God. He wants to show you how much He loves you by providing for you - even if that takes removing something in your life and allowing you to feel heartache. You can't see the plan God has set forth before you but I do know that it is a plan to prosper you and give you a future.